Ok, so I had 5 goals last year.
Goal 1 was to keep a list of 5 running goals. Ok, I kept the list.
Goal 2 was to get my office/ studio in order. I would do ok at cleaning it up, then a cabinet would throw up or beading gnomes would have a party with the sock gnomes in the middle of the night and ruin all my hard work. (Yes, I am blaming my mess of a studio on imaginary creatures.)
Goal 3 was to get my belly/ body back in shape. I am down 5 pounds, but not toned at all. I did join a gym THIS YEAR. At a joining fee of $99/ $10 a month. I have gone once so far. But I love trying to do my Couch-2-5K on the treadmill there.
Goal 4 was to keep the household better. I have made huge strides in that area, but that has been in the past 6 weeks and not really "last year". But it was more than just cleaning. It was laundry, bill paying and just plain keeping up.
Goal 5 was to work on my 2 homebased businesses. I let go Votre Vu. I did not have the time or money to keep it going. My beading business had a great year. I was not able to participate in any shows, but through Etsy and Facebook friends, I did sell!
These goals were in my head all year. Even though I did not do much with them, they were there taunting me into be being better. I will admit, because I did not get much accomplished last year, I am kicking butt THIS YEAR with those 5 goals.
Here is to 2013 and my 5 goals for this year!
Goal 1: Get my office and studio cleaned up & and out! Get my laptop down there. Now that I have an Ipad, I do not think I need my laptop on the kitchen counter (along with all my bill-paying stuff) to create clutter that annoys my hubby.
Goal 2: Spend 30 minutes with my boys a day. Try not to have it include a TV or computer or them playing at the park while I sit there.
Goal 3: For the month of February, go to the gym at least once a week. March go at least twice a week. April go three times a week.
Goal 4: Eat more fruits and veggies.
Goal 5: In an effort to hit many areas of my beading life at once, I am going to do the Fusion Beads Weekly Challenge that they started last year. I will create or do whatever the challenge may be and then blog about it here. I will try to use only what I have on hand. Some of the challenges have the artist using a specific bead or product. If that is the case, I will skip over that challenge and come back to it when I have over $25 worth of product to buy. $25 is their free shipping limit. I have loved Fusion Beads from the beginning of my beading journey. They sucked me in with their "any size order has free shipping." They just recently started having a minimum order free shipping policy. They also have wonderful how-to's and an awesome inspiration gallery. After I have completed the challenge, I will take photos of the piece of jewelry or task, blog about it here, and then post the jewelry piece on Etsy.
Let's see where this year takes me! So far, it is just taking me to my day job. The days have been long and exhausting.
For 2016, blogging about my 100 Things to do or Goals for the year! Busy mom trying to be great everything and actually is great at just being mediocre!
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Sunday, January 20, 2013
Thursday, November 22, 2012
Some THING to be Thankful For
I read an article on Yahoo! News yesterday. It really made me think about the best "thing" I have to be thankful for.... my marriage.
Can you imagine being married for 80 years? I can't even imagine being 80 years old, let alone to share my life with someone on such an intimate level for 80 years.
Can you imagine being married for 80 years? I can't even imagine being 80 years old, let alone to share my life with someone on such an intimate level for 80 years.
Couple Celebrates 80th Wedding Anniversary, Shares Secrets to Lasting Marriage
There have been events that have happened in the past few months that have made me realise that my marriage is pretty awesome. It is not all "rosey" and perfect. Far from that, but it is a great marriage.
From the article, the two most important things I agreed with was the couple's advice of:
1. Get along and compromise
2. Live within your means.
My third that is more the summary of the whole article is....
3. Be supportive of your spouse.
Getting along and compromising is the day to day mechanics of a marriage. This also includes communication. You probably can not read your spouses mind and your spouse probably can not read yours. Honest and open communication is the most effective way to make sure you are meeting the needs of your spouse and your spouse is meeting your needs. Getting along and discussing anything and everything leads to being able to compromise on the things you may not agree on.
LIVE WITHIN YOUR MEANS is a huge blessing for those who have been able to do it. We are totally guilty of not living within our means. It leads to much stress and unnecessary arguments. Now, we are trying to dig ourselves out of this financial hole we are in. If you can learn this BEFORE you let it get out of hand, you are blessed. If you can get yourself out of a financial abyss and still love and respect each other, you are also blessed. Most couples can not.
Being supportive of your spouse and the spouse being supportive of you is the "BIG PICTURE" of a marriage. Even though you may not have interest in your spouses special project at work, it is important to ask and become interested. That project could lead to stress and anxiety OR a raise or a bonus. Either way, you being aware of the project and being accommodating to other needs that may arise will only benefit
your marriage. A "project at work" could be a stay at home spouse's charity work, cleaning and bill paying. Take an active interest in your spouse's interests.
Even if you are not 100% supportive of an idea/project, that is where getting along and compromising comes in handy! Marriage is not easy. It takes work, communication and understanding from both people. I am blessed to have a husband who works with me and tries to understand my needs while letting me know his needs. My final thought on this subject comes from Ann Betar, the bride of 80 years, "You know what your commitments are and you try to live by them and understand one another. If you don't hold a grudge, you can face anything."
*** the article I read and quoted was written by Lauren Sher - Good Morning America.
http://news.yahoo.com/couple-celebrates-80th-wedding-anniversary-shares-secrets-lasting-174309809--abc.news-sex.html
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